The author thinks we cannot just live alone, we need to have a belonging, but maybe love other people is hurt other people’s freedom. What’s more, we think we are in a group or a community, we can feel we are superior than others. we all need help, but sometimes we always hide this and think we are better than others. In order to think we are superior to others, we build walls, make our group against other groups, prejudice cultivates. ...
The author got some experiences which saw so many disabilities, they full of loneliness, painful. A human being needs a companion, and we need truths and make our worlds or communities better. Community and Rigid Order This is a paradox between the desire to belong, to fit in a community and to serve the deepest mind for oneself, close to God and be freedom. The Weakness of a Child We all born with weakness, we need love from parents as we cannot survive without others help. So if we don’t get love from the outside world, we will feel lonely. A lonely child will construct protection to survive and close his heart, but a child who gets love will more open to the world. we all have a lonely child in our heart, a lonely child can make us survive but also can destruct us. ...